LEAVE THE JUDGING FOR THE COURTROOM.!!

When is appropriate for your parent or guardian to choose who you can and cannot talk to. At what point is it ok for you to rebel against their decision.  Every parent has the right to tell you how they feel about who you talk to but they don’t have the right to say you can’t talk to them, especially if they don’t even know the person that well. It is true that they only won’t what’s best for you, BUT HOW CAN THEY KNOW WHATS BEST FOR YOU IF THEY DON’T EVEN REALLY KNOW YOU! You are your own person and nobody no you like you do.  No one really knows what you need but you. They see someone and judge them based on appearance, and “the word around the block is…” They never take the time to try and understand them or get to know them. This person can make you SOOO HAPPY and can be the best thing that ever happened to you, but they will never know because they don’t take the time to. There excuse is “I been there and done that. I know his type he just going to hurt you. I just don’t want you to make to same mistake I made.” What they don’t know is that you’re your own person, and even if they see that kind, they don’t know THAT person.  Next time this happens to you tell your parents…. STOP JUDGEING PEOPLE AND TRY TO GET TO KNOW THEM FIRST.

                                                                                                                                             -Marie