How To Get Over An Ex: 5 Simple Steps

1. Take your ex off that pedestal.


Stop acting like your ex was God's gift to mankind. He/she wasn't perfect. Make a list of his/her annoying traits. Do whatever you have to do just take him/her off the pedestal.

2. Get closure.

If you're going to end this thing, end it. Make sure you're both on the same page and get any information that you feel is necessary concerning them and/or the break-up.

3. Don't contact your ex.

After you’ve gotten closer, don’t contact him/her. Go cold turkey, seriously! Maybe you said something about trying to stay friends, maybe you made some idiot vow to “always be there for each other” but forget it. By staying in touchwith old flames there's going to be on-again-off-again uncertainty. So throw out him/her phone number, stop texting him/her, unfriend him/her on Facebook and unfollow him/her on Twitter. 

4. Avoid your ex's friends and the places he/she would typically hang.

If you want to avoid the temptations that come with bumping into an ex, you might have to make some sacrifices. You might have stop associating with some of your mutual friends. You might have to avoid some of your favorite places too.

5. Party, Party, Party!

Get up and get out. Go partying with friends and be young, wild and free. Moping around the house wouldn't do anything but make you depressed.

 

EX TO THE NEXT? MAYBE NOT?

I believe everyone has at-least one ex, if you don't consider yourself blessed, saves you the heartache. I believe as much as people say their COMPLETELY over their ex, its not true. Everyone has at-least 1% of love for their ex even if 99% is gone. I personally always will have some love for my ex, I'm sure most of us like to walk by our ex to show him how good we look and what he's missing. Its ok to still have some love for him maybe one day you two will get back together. 

follow up with cierra

People say that its hard to get over a boy because we're young and dont know what love is and don't know how to take a relationship. I STRONGLY disagree. When we are teenagers, that is the time when you experience the most pain, hurt, and suicidal thoughts.When we are young such as 13-18, we see the most and experience the most. I once was in a relationship and was very hurt when it ended. It was for the simple fact that everyday we were  together. Everyday he said the 3words. everyday we had romantic conversations. Everyday we held hands and looked in eachothers eyes. Then when it ended......... it felt like the end of the world. People say "oh she just want to be grown. She don't know what she's feeling." But really that's not true. I know exactly what is going on. I feel it and its not a great feeling when it's over.  So they talk about the teenagers and downgrade our thoughts. when really.... we know the most. We are growing and learning to become stronger.